Trust is the base of any relationship. Trust on each other is the key factor to keep a relationship strong and healthy. Relationship, especially romantic relationship depends on mutual trust. Trust issues can develop very easily in these relationship if any of the partner suspects unfaithfulness or betrayal in a relationship.
There are various signs of a man with trust issues. He may not believe his partner. He may doubt what his partner is doing or saying to him. He may be suspicious of the intentions of other people meeting his partner. He is always on the alert to catch his partner on her wrong foot to prove her being unfaithful to him.
Similar signs can also be seen in signs of a woman with trust issues. She is doubting the intentions of her partner every time he meets a female friend. She becomes convinced that he has lost his interest in her and is looking for another partner. She can become paranoid in her behaviour towards her partner just to make sure that he belongs only to her and will obey only she will say to him.
These are serious or a critical situations. This must be handled carefully without losing any more time. Or a relationship may get permanently damaged without any valid reason. Children in the family may suffer from the outcome of broken relationship. Once you can realise that trust issues are bothering you or tour partner, you must take corrective measures immediately.
Trust is so important in a relationship strong and healthy that it makes you relaxed and have faith on your partner. It ensures safety and security for you. It makes you comfortable, affectionate, and full of energy with a sense of belonging. Once you can understand the problem, you should act towards correcting it. You need to patient yourself as nothing will happen overnight.
You need to act slowly to build the trust back:
You need to be forgiving for your partner. He/she may be committing mistakes willingly or unwillingly hurting you that you may have to overlook and not care about. You have to take your time to let your tolerance take effect on your partner. Please do not take hasty decisions in this matter which might make your partner more suspicious of your intentions.
You need to be open with your partner:
If you had suffered from any mistrust issues in the past, you need to discuss it openly with your partner. You can only hope that he/she will understand you better and realise your problems.
You need not have any wish to control your partner:
There is difference between trust and control. You may feel like controlling your partner if she/he has any trust issues. You may even feel betrayed. Please do not try to take control over every situation. You must know how much you need to control every time you feel like controlling your partner or a situation.
You must make trust a priority by being trustworthy:
Trusting your partner and trusting yourself are priorities for you. You also have to be trustworthy. Trust is a mutual feeling. Your partner will trust you only if she/he believes that you also trust her/him fully and unconditionally. If things become out of control, you may consider contacting a therapist to solve your issues.
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