Giving advice on relationship is a matter of great risk. If not asked for, these advices can be interpreted as insults or act of humiliating someone. Experts give their valued opinion on relationship issues.
According to these experts, there has to be a prefixed time and date to talk about relationship, if anyone at all feels the need to talk on this subject. They insist on creating the right atmosphere for the talk, such as a dinner at a nice place for the talk.
One should do his/her homework for the talk before going for the dinner. It may sound dull but to remain prepared may make the meeting good and fruitful, rather than simply kill the dinner with unnecessary annoying discussions.
One needs to candid about the good or bad feelings both. Feelings must be heard and appreciated to be respectful to your partner. Appreciation makes a relationship stronger and the partners to come closer to each other.
Issues those keep repeating in relationships must be looked into with due seriousness. Recurring issues popping up are everywhere. Stress conditions may arise from anything. Partners may not be liking each other’s spending habits or may be very much oppressed at his/her workplace. These tiffs may give rise to regular conflicts which should not be allowed to continue. Both the partners should look into it seriously to find out a solution and to put an end to this practice.
You may be wrong if you start thinking your partner as your best friend. You may be expecting too much from him/her. But the partner may not be up to it. It may be disappointing and devastating to you. Your partner cannot be everything you want him/her to be, no matter how hard she/he tries for it. Your accepting this will relax you and will make your relationship a matter of joy rather than a matter of sorrow.
Rehearse out loud before you pass any comment on something your partner has done. This will save you from many complications. This habit improves the quality of your communication no end. It also saves you from miserable misinterpretations. Rather you are heard sympathetically and understood properly.
Make a habit of making a display of your positive feelings. Anything is better appreciated when seen rather than when heard. Your small acts of doing something for your partner may prove to be more effective than your hundred times saying, “I love you.” You may make a cup of coffee for her or clean her fridge and see how happy and pleased she becomes, instead of your cooing in her ears of sweet nothings.
Never hesitate to talk about money with your partner. It is not a prestige issue. But talking about money with right spirit will make the relationship stronger. It shows how much you trust your partner and are not ashamed of discussing delicate and sensitive matters with her/him, that you may think can hurt your ego.
Love your partner every day and if there is a fight, make it productive. Look forward to the next minute as to how are you going to love your partner, instead of waiting and planning for a day after a month on an occasion. Every moment with your partner is an occasion. And if you do have a difference of opinion, make it productive by finding a solution to the problem, but for staying cross with each other for days together. Your friends may be able to give you good advice on this matter. And if not, you can consult the Honeymooners to solve your problem.
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